Why Women are the majority inhabitants of the hell fire

O' my beloved sisters in Islam;
Do not occupy yourself with worldy desires such as following the daily trends of fashion,

watching Bollywood movies,
singing and dancing to tunes which contain statements that are forbidden in Islam,
do not freely mix yourself amongst men (Muslim/non-Muslim),
Do not leave your homes dressed to impress the evil within society,
do not pose with high heels,
do not display yourself openly while you are covered,
do not draw attention by actting foolishly in the streets,
protect yourself from the evil within you,
the cursed Shaytaan, and the evil that you drag with you.
Wake up! and realize you are not promised tomorrow.
Repent to your Lord, the Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.
Ask for guidance, patience, and strength.
May Allah, the Most High, protect us and guide us so that our ultimate goal in this life is to obtain His Pleasure ;
Ameen

"Know they not that whoever opposes and shows hostility to Allaah and His Messenger, certainly for him will be the fire of Hell to abide therein? That is extreme disgrace". (9:63)

Most of the sinners amongst the monotheists who enter Hell will be women, as is reported in as-Saheehayn, via Ibn 'Abbaas: in the khutbah given during a solar eclipse, the Prophet (sallahu'alayhi wa sallam) said,
"I saw Hell and I saw that most of its inhabitants were women".

Abu Sa'eed al-Khudri reports:
The Prophet (sallahu'alayhi wa sallam) said,

"O women give in charity, for I have seen that you form the majority of the people of Hell."
They asked, "Why is that so, O Messenger of Allaah (saw)?"
He said, "Because you curse too much and are ungrateful for good treatment".
(al-Bukhaari and Muslim)

Usaamah ibn Zayd reported that the Prophet (sallahu'alayhi wa sallam) said:
"I stood at the gate of Hell, and saw that most of those who entered were women".
(al-Bukhaari and Muslim)
Muslim reports from 'Imraan ibn Husayn (ra) that the Prophet (sallahu'alayhi wa sallam) said,
"Few of the inhabitants of Paradise are women".
This does not contradict the fact that every man in Paradise will have more than one wife. What is referred to by the women who will be the majority of the inhabitants of Hell is women who are descendants of Aadam: the inhabitants of Paradise will have many wives from among al-Hoor al-'Iyn.

"Women will be few among the inhabitants of Paradise because in most cases they prefer the immediate pleasures of this life, as they are less wise and unable to keep the Hereafter in mind. They are too weak to strive and prepare themselves for it, and are more inclined towards this world. In spite of all this, they are the strongest factor in this world that distracts men from the Hereafter, because men are inclined to desire them and they are not concerned with the Hereafter. They are quick to follow those who call them to deviate from Islaam, and reluctant to follow those pious people who call them to the Hereafter, and righteous deeds". (al-Qurtubee, at-Tadhkirah, 1/369)


In spite of all this, there are many righteous women among them, who stay within the limits set by Allaah (swt), adhere to His laws, and obey Allaah (swt) and His Messenger. Many of these women will enter Paradise, and many of them excel over men in their faith and righteous deeds.

My dear sisters in Islaam, let heaven be our destination, and to see our Lord our aim, let us be amongst the righteous women of Islaam. Let's dedicate our selves to obey the commands of your Lord, and His Messenger (sallahuàlayhi wa sallam) and realize that there is NO pleasure in other than which pleases our Creator.

O Muslimah!

Fear Your Lord!
Give charity and repent before its too Late!

O my dear sisters in Islam
Wear ur hijab - preserve ur modesty - say NO to envy and backbiting!
Be a practicing and exemplary muslimah for u are the PEAR OF ISLAM!!

May Allah bless u all..
Ameen

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And how long has it been since my last post? Ages I assume?? xP Oh well, I've been busy with my studies and facebook (mostly facebook xP)..Sorry blog, I have two exams to get myself prepared for by January and my birthday's coming up in 4 days, never knew time could past so fast. At first your a baby, next thing you know - you're 17!!

Anyways, this post is really to say how much I appreciate my life and all the people around me :) . That doesn't sound like me xP. Oh well, I was crying in my room - for having an argument with my parents - which I honestly hate to do! And I thought, I might as well write something before death comes, I mean hey, death can practically come any time - so, might as well, get yourself prepared and in anyway you can, let the people who matters know how you feel. And since I'm such an ego person and just cannot say sorry to my parents in person, I thought I might as well write something in my blog for them to read, hopefully when I'm gone xP

So, really, I mean I seriously am sorry for all the things I've done which has upset you, for all the words I've said which might have hurt you in anyway. Any physical or mental injury I've ever caused to you, Mum, Dad, everyone..I AM SORRY! I love you really. It's just that you know, when you're growing up and turning into an adult - that gap between childhood years and going into adulthood, which I call as Kidulthood, is hard AND stressing. With all the peer pressures, and school life, and the work at home - sometimes, you just feel like screaming and maybe, just maybe, sometimes, you can't control yourself and you become as somewhat disrespectful and seriously irritating. I'm sorry, there has been time where I've tried to change, but sadly, my emotions get a bit out of control when people keep on looking down on me and keeps on treating me like a foolish little girl, and hasn't been raised well enough. Truly, to my parents, my brothers and sisters. my relatives, the hard working teachers who's tried to teach me as best as they can, all my friends, and everyone whose known me and has had to be seriously patient with me. I am really really really sorry, I hope you'll forgive me and may peace be upon you.

Assalamualaikum..