Friday, 30 July 2010

A cat made me smile. :)

This happened when I was in my secondary school years in Malaysia. I don't know if it's something unusual or something normal, all I know is - until now, I can't forget what's happened and I don't think I would ever want to forget it.! :) Two cats it was that made me smile - one was orange with white stripe and the other was a black and white cat. Both came when I cried and both turned my frown upside down. :)

As a student who depends on her parents to fetch her from school everyday, when I cannot leave the school before 1:50 pm, I'd have to wait for my mum until 5- 5:30 pm. Waiting until 5:30 would have been fine, IF I only had some friends with me. The only problem was, by 4:30, the school's already empty - leaving me by myself and the security guard. I don't what I was scared of more, the strangers outside or the security guard that was INSIDE the school. I'm a girl - with the crime rates increasing, anything could have happened! At first, I wanted to just let the time fly by doing my homeworks or revising or ANYTHING that'd be useful. I was too scared though. All I could think about was my fate - if there were some people trying to kidnap me, what would I do? If the security guard tried to harm me, how will I defend myself? I even came up with some Kung Fu moves (which I made up myself) just so that I can be prepared if the worst should happen. This came to be sort-of like a norm to me.

On one occasion, I broke down by the canteen's long stool and cried - the canteen was dark, the day seemed to get darker and I spotted a male foreign worker somewhere. I was scared and I didn't know what else I can do. I was technically cursing the school for making the extra curricular thing compulsory - I was emotional then, please understand. When I reassured myself that it was for my own good (I think I did xP), I prayed and prayed for my safety, at the same time thinking of ways to defend myself if anything should happen. Right then and there, the orange cat came. It jumped on the long stool I was sitting on and looked at me, smiling 'mee-ow'ing. I knew tears were still coming out of eyes, but this time, I had a smile on my face. For some reason, my heart calmed and I seriously had the feeling that Allah sent the cat to make me feel better. ngee~ I LOVED IT! ^^ Usually, I'd be scared of cats for their claws, and if they tried coming near me, I'd move away. But this one, it came closer and just sat on the stool and I didn't mind that (surprisingly). Believe it or not, I actually talked to the cat - and that made me feel better. :) You can call me weird if you want, I'm just happy to hear whatever you have to say.

The black and white cat came when the weather was not as good as I've hoped. It was raining heavily, the sounds of thunders were banging in my ears and the sky was dark. Hence, the reason why it proved to be even more scarier than the experience before. Before this I sat in the canteen, now I sat in between the canteen and the school's pavement which linked to my old primary school. Whenever I heard the thunder, my heart would tremble, hoping that I won't be struck by the lightning. As before, I prayed and prayed and prayed. And, a cat came out of NOWHERE. Well, it might have come from the curriculum room wall I was leaning against. hihi. Like the cat from before, this cat smiled as well and you cannot imagine how calm that made me feel. I was thankful, amazed and  just happy that, that cat came. Alhamdulilah. My tears of fear were replaced by tears of joy, laughter and just amazement. I just sat down and thought of the cat as my friend. Talking my heart out.

As I've said before, I don't know if both these experiences are something unusual or something normal, all I know is - until now, I can't forget what's happened and I don't think I would ever want to forget it.! :) And thought I'd like to share it in my blog, so that whenever my time comes, my family and friends would know one of those memories which I just LOVE! :)

Assalamualaikum~ ^^

Wednesday, 28 July 2010

The episode of my change.

When I was young, I committed a LOT of sins. Prayers to me were nothing, wearing the hijab (to cover my aurah) to me was boring and lying to me, was something unavoidable in order to save myself from getting told off - eventhough I knew lying was and IS a sin, and I've done a lot of other sins as well as all that I've listed. I would avoid doing all the compulsory thing wherever possible. Basically, although I was a Muslim and testified that there is no God but Allah and Muhammad (SAW) is His messenger, I don't think I truly believed there will be a Hereafter. I was blinded by this World - having fun seemed to be my main priority in life.

After a couple of years living in ignorance, I finally changed, Alhamdulillah.

It was a beautiful month of Ramadhan. At first, I was reluctant to fast, but, because my parents and my older brother and sister fasted and I was expected to fast as well, I fasted - even though it seemed boring and somewhat a torture to me. All this was out of my own ignorance of course.

Until one fine morning, I thought, "If I have to fast, I might as well wake up early to fill my stomache up, enough for the day". So, I woke up around 4 o'clock in the morning, around an hour and a half earlier than Fajar (subuh - sunrise in english). Because I was young, around 12 or 13 years old back then, I didn't know what to do after waking up that early. Helping my mum cook would be something I'm clueless about. And so, I decided to take a shower - four o'clock in the morning - you can imagine how cold it was! After I showered, I had no idea what to do - our house was neat and tidy - meaning I wouldn't be able to pass the time by tidying up (although I felt like wanting to be a good girl).

Since I had nothing better to do, I turned on the TV. The first channel that came on had a man reciting the Quran. Out of foolishness, I changed the TV to other channels in the hope of some cartoons. Fortunately for me,  Cartoon Network was unbearably boring and most of the other cartoon channels didn't have any cartoons on air due to the time of day. So, I thought I might as well go to the first channel rather than sticking my face on Cartoon Network. I listened to the recitation of the Quran and read the translation (tafseers) of the verses that was on the screen and my heart trembled with fear as I read and listened more attentively. I think it was a verse about the states of the people of Hellfire.  And then, a verse about the states of the people of Paradise. My heart trembled with fear, all I wanted to do was cry and cry and all I prayed for was my safety from the Hellfire. Because I didn't want my mum to see me cry, I tried to keep it all inside me.

After that one unforgettable experience, I changed. I started praying five times a day, started having an interest in learning more about Islam and just keeping myself occupied with good deeds rather than bad. Wearing the hijab was not an embarrassment to me anymore, I saw it as a MUST thing to do in order to save myself from Hell and get myself closer to Allah SWT. Alhamdulliah, until now I'm thankful for that experince to Allah as it has changed me to a better person - even my families were surprised with my changes (I think). I don't think I have ever told them this story though, even though I've been asked by one of them before why I've changed. Subbahanallah Wal hamdulillah Wa la ila ha illahu allah hu akbar. Who knows, I might have been granted this hidayah because of some people's prayers. For all those people, I thank you! :) May we be among the guided ones and saved from Hell. ameen~

Why am I telling you this story?

A lot of people has been wondering how and why I've changed. Well folks, that was the answer to your question. Please do note that I am still a normal human being and I still do have a lot to learn. So, please do correct me when I'm wrong and please forgive me for all my wrongdoings.

Thank you, Assalamualaikum.~ ^^

Monday, 26 July 2010

My restaurant has NO doors, but it DOES have an entrance. :)

It's been quite a while since I've played Restaurant City. No, let me rephrase that - It's been AAAGES since I played Restaurant City on FaceBook. After getting back on it today, truthfully, I wasn't surprised why I left it for such a long time - the restaurant was horrible! I think it was a plan gone wrong or something.

At first, looking at it - I was like "Nahh..I ain't playing this thing again. It looks too awful!".

The trouble with me - I want my restaurant to be like all those other famous five-star restaurants. That's not a weakness - rather, it should be a motivation, right? But hey, I thought it looked so horrible that it own't be worth my time to play on it anymore. But then it hit me!

  "Nabihah, if you intend on making a business, you can't just give up everytime things don't go as how you've planned!" 
And that my friends was the start of my newly-found inspiration to keep on playing the game! haha xD. It's AMAZING how you can relate a game to reality just to make yourself 'work' harder. You see, I've been wanting to start my own business when I get back home in Malaysia - possibly start selling at my university. Selling and studying - that'll be one of my dreams come true. :) That is of course - if Allah wills. ^^ The world of business, as I understand, will not be as easy as this game - there'll be loads more risk and loads more problems on the way. So, that's how I came to that kind of conclusion - to never GIVE UP! ngee~! :D

The picture above is my restaurant after that 'inspiration' I had. Notice that it doesn't come with doors but has a maze for a garden? Well, that's so that I can buy time and reduce the number of 'complaints' I'd get from my beloved customers. :) However, I felt I could buy some more time - which led to this:

I know - the tiles needs to be changed, and I need to find a better way of buying time since this one looks horrible! I'm broke at the moment and so, highly doubt I can add that much to the restaurant with such little money.

Whatever happens to the restaurant, I think I'll just let it happen because NOW is the time for me to get back to reality! 

Assalamualaikum~ ^^

Friday, 23 July 2010

Jikalau cinta itu mulia.

Jikalau benar cinta itu mulia,
Begitu senangkah untuk kita merasakannya?

Jikalau benar cinta itu mulia,
Begitu mudahkah untuk kita melafazkannya?

Jikalau benar cinta itu mulia,
Bolehkah ia diganti sewenang-wenangnya?

Jikalau benar cinta itu mulia,
Bolehkah ia digunakan untuk menghinakan sepasangan manusia?

Jikalau benar cinta itu mulia,
Bolahkah ia dijadikan alasan untuk melupakan Pencipta?

Jangan senang melafazkan cinta,
Jikalau yang dirasa hanya perasaan suka,
Kerana cinta itu mulia.

Jangan berani menyamarkan nafsu dengan cinta,
Kerana cinta itu mulia.

Sebelum kita menagih cinta manusia,
Carilah dulu cinta Allah yang Maha Mulia,
Agar kita tidak terjerumus kepada takdir yang hina.

Peringatan kpd diri jua, Assalamualaikum~ ^^

Thursday, 22 July 2010

Mat British hensem!

8 Julai 2010, hari bersejarah yang terbukti amat payah untuk dilupakan. Mana tidaknya, itulah hari aku ditemukan dengan seorang lelaki yang tampan lagi 'tough'. :P Kriteria 2T yang kebanyakan perempuan cari. haha xP Kepada yang dah mula berfikir yang bukan-bukan tentang diri ini, anda dinasihatkan membaca entri ini sampai habis demi memahami tujuan sebenar entri ini ditulis.

credits to aisyah n mai for tagging me in fb :)

8 Julai 2010. Hari 'enterprise day' dekat sekolah untuk pelajar Year 9. Aku, salah seorang dari 30-40 murid pelajar Year 12 yang terlebih rajin, menjadi sukarelawan untuk membantu menjalankan aktiviti-aktiviti hari itu. Ada tiga kategori:

Media team - merekod hari tersebut. (tangkap gambar, rekod video etc. ) Tak penting sebab aku tak pilih yang ni.
Business hosts - Untuk hari ni, kitorg ada 'business volunteers' yang membantu. Dah nama 'enterprise day', ada la kan orang - orang business. Kerja para business hosts adalah untuk membantu para business volunteers ni dan tunjukkan jalan - kira macam 'tour guide' la, dah sekolah kami penuh dengan block2 nye.

Classroom motivators - membantu guru di dalam kelas untuk menjaga dan membantu para pelajar.

Aku pilih 2 roles - business host dan classroom motivator. Yang sedihnya, business host aku tak dapat hadir hari tu. Sebab apa, aku pun tak pasti. Hasrat untuk bertanya pasal dunia business pun pudar. huhu..T.T Tapi, yang bagusnya, sebab business volunteer aku tak datang, business volunteer kelas aku digantikan dengan dua business volunteer lain - Nat dan Mickey.

Pada mulanya, semasa mereka menjejakkan kaki ke dalam kelas 'aku'. Tiada apa2 yang istimewa pun. Pandang aku pun macam biasa2 je - tiada perasaan benci, tiada perasaan suka. Entah kenapa, kira selepas 10 minit aku kat dalam kelas tu, si Mickey mula berperangai 'pelik'.

Ceritanya macam ni, bila pelajar dah memulakan aktiviti, eksperimen diorg, aku pun cubalah nak tolong - berdiri dekat sebelah seorang pelajar, baca instruction 2 minit tak masuk2 dalam kepala macam mana nak buat eksperimen yang diorg patut buat. Lepas tu, si Mickey lalu dekat sebelah - pandang aku. So, aku pun apa lagi, takkan nak buat bodoh kan? Dengan selambanya aku cakap "Sir" sambil mengangguk kepala, senyum. Dia pun balaslah senyuman tu dan lalu ke bahagian depan kelas. Tengah khusyuk aku baca instruction yang tertulis kat dalam agenda hari tu, rasa hati tak sedap macam ada orang pandang. Jadi, aku pun cari la orang yang membuat hati aku rasa tak sedap tu. Tengok2 si Mickey tu - pandang je. Dah aku pandang dia, dia pun dengan selambanya datang ke kitorg la kan - berdiri betul2 dekat sebelah aku. Itu baru badan dia, kepala dia - kira2 jarak lebih kurang 2 inci kut, baca benda yang aku baca tu kononnye.

Dalam hati - "mamat ni nak buat apa ni. bukannya booklet aku je yang ade kat dalam kelas ni. meja dekat tu pun ade banyak, siap tersusun lagi tu.! Ishh! Dah la mata biru, rambut spikey, badan tegap - takyah la nak mencairkan aku mamat oi!" huhu. T.T "Sabar Nabihah, sabar..dugaan dunia, Nabihah..sabar"

Lepas tu, dia pun tanya la soalan pasal eksperimen tu. Aku, untuk mengelakkan soalan berlanjutan cakap je "I've never done this kind of experiment before", alihkan pandangan. Baru dia pergi cheq..SELAMAT! :) Tapi, itu bukan akhirnya sebab, dia datang balik waktu aku tengah nak cakap dengan group aku tolong tu - dia berdiri betul2 kat belakang aku. Tak cakap apa2, cuma berdiri. Aku yang berpeluh, tertanya2 kenapa perangai dia lain daripada orang lain - kalau nak cakap aku seksi, aku pakai tudung, baju T-Shirt lengan panjang, seluar track Umbro yang setahu aku dah cukup longgar dah pakaian aku - seksi ke? Tidak sama sekali cheq!

Kalau aku nak sambung semua yang berlaku pada hari bersejarah ni, terlampau banyak la pulak. Maklumlah, dah hari bersejarah yang tak boleh dilupakan, semua jenis detail boleh ingat ;P. So, cukuplah kot kalau aku highlightkan niat aku yang sebenar dalam menulis entri ni.

1. Mickey tu handsome, badan pun 'tough' - kalau minah saleh sini, mesti dah lama kejar dia. Untuk highlightkan betapa hensemnye dia, boleh la dikatakan dia lagi hensem dari gamba kat atas tu. hehe. (sorry mai, sorry aisyah) :)

2. Kalau lelaki hensem cuba datang dekat, jangan hanya kerana rupa dia, kita berikan dia ruang untuk nak bermiang2 ngan kita. Hensem ke, tak hensem ke - kita sebagai perempuan kena jaga maruah diri dan agama.!

3. Mungkin perangai dia pelik sebab dia dah biasa. But hey, takdek salahnya kalau kita berperah santan sikit untuk mencari pengajaran dalam episod hidup, an? hehe ^^

A reminder to myself:

Nabihah, ingatlah:
Sehensem mana pun seorang lelaki itu,
Tidaklah sehensem Nabi Yusuf A.S.
Sebaik mana pun dirinya,
Tidaklah sebaik Nabi Muhammad SAW.
Semanis mana pun kata2nya,
Tidaklah semanis ayat2 Al-Quran yang membawa diri kpd kesejahteraan.
Jadi, bila jumpa lelaki hensem,
Peliharalah pandangan,
Teguhkan hati dan iman,
Agar dapat menggapai kejayaan.

Note: nama sebenar dua business volunteers tu telah diubah atas sebab2 tertentu..

Terima kasih, Assalamualaikum~ ^^

Sunday, 18 July 2010

Does God exist?

Who created those rocks, those hills, those mountains?
Assalamualaikum~ ^^

Today has been quite a day for me. What was supposed to be my first summer study day turned into a day where studies seemed to be the least of my worries (surprisingly). Today, I did more packing up than studying - maybe because my mum thinks we're gonna go soon. Oh well, might as well pack up now rather than later. Plus, I learnt a simple tip from my mum's friend on how to lose weight - something really useful for me - UNSURPRISINGLY! :) Anyhow, as promised with a special friend, for the rest of my summer days and the days ahead, I would like to try - using all my knowledge and logic, to prove that God exists. InsyaAllah, I will update this blog every night before I go to sleep.

So, does God exist?

(A good story to illustrate how God does exist - click here.)
From the way I see it. If there was no God, how am I here? If there was no Creator, how am I here? Imagine a chair - there would be no chair if there was no man who made it, would there? A house - you won't get a house without groups of people building and structuring it. So, how can I ever say there is no God?

The theory of evolution -

Evolution is the change in the inherited traits of a population of organisms through successive generations. After a population splits into smaller groups, these groups evolve independently and may eventually diversify into new species. A nested hierarchy of anatomical and genetic similarities, geographical distribution of similar species and the fossil record indicate that all organisms are descended from a common ancestor through a long series of these divergent events, stretching back in a tree of life that has grown over the 3,500 million years of life on Earth.[2] - wikipedia

seems completely absurd to me. Would it ever make sense to say that my ancestors were a number of monkeys or orang utans? Seriously, if those theorists want to claim their ancestors were some monkeys, they can be my guest. Me - I believe God created Adam and Eve, my first ancestor.

What came first, a chicken or a chicken's eggs?

In everything that happens, there has got to be an origin, a start - and who or what can create and has created this start if it's not the Creator itself? The evolutionist claims that life starts from the mutation of other animals etc. But, have they ever questioned themselves - who created those other lives? If it was some cells, who created those cells? Nature? Who created nature?

Plus, let's not forget the fact that evolution has only been a theory. Never has it been proved and I think it is most unlikely they will ever be able to prove that theory of theirs. For example, imagine an apple. If we leave it on its tree, not laying a single finger on it - would it transform into a pear or would it fall down its tree, ready for us to eat? There is just no way that there is no God. if there was no God, who can claim power over this world? If there was no God, will we then start worshipping some man who's just the same as us - needs the same air, needs the same necessities as we do?

*For any wrongdoings - my communication skills or anything else. Please let me know and forgive me. Thank you ^^
*I am not trying to tell you what to think. This is my personal opinion. Any feedback on what you think is highly encouraged to be shared here. At least, I can try and see what you're seeing. :)
*InsyaAllah, after this, I will include "The Qur'an & Modern Science : Compatible or Incompatible" written by Dr. Zakir Naik.

Tuesday, 13 July 2010

Life has NO second try.!

Remember, patience is faith, money isn't your friend, 
this world is just a loan and we die alone.

I've just had my Decision 2 progress test result today, make that yesterday actually. And enough said, my results weren't that good and weren't that bad. Still, it was not good enough for me! Considering the fact that I want to do all my exams in January, I need to, as my teacher says it, "stay on top of the course" and get the top end grades in every subjects' tests. So, I asked sir if I could do a retake test.

I know I didn't do that well in the test because I didn't revise - and to be fairly honest - I expected a grade far worse than what I had. I assumed it'll be easy and sadly, I was proved wrong. Still, life is to move forwards, not backwards - which is why I asked sir if I could do the retake test (with the hope that I'll prepare myself for it this time).

Anyone would know how painful it is to just not get the grade you want, and yes, we can always have a second try - so long as we're still alive at the time to do so. And then, it finally hit me! The difference between life and school tests - there is NO second try! Once you're gone, that's it, you're finished - GONE! Your fate in the Hereafter may have already been sealed - unless of course if you have left some good things that others can benefit from before you're gone. Amazing - a disappointment in test just taught me an important lesson in life. Subbahanallah, Alhamdulillah. :)

I think the good thing about me - I learn from my mistakes as well as others. But, when it comes to tests, I usually need to see a bad grade for myself first before I will really work hard. The thought of life having no second try was dreadful to me. If I'm the type that likes to 'learn' from failure, how can I succeed the second time around if there's not going to be a second try? So, from today onwards I want to be as patient as I can be and just fill my days up with deeds that can help me in the Hereafter, InysaAllah~ Care to join?

Pray for me :)

Assalamualaikum~ ^^

Sunday, 11 July 2010

This is why I write.

A number of people has been curious to know why I have a blog – why I write what I write and what makes me want to write. Some believe I should really be studying instead of blogging. For those people, as much as I appreciate your concern for my studies and my future in this world, please allow me to explain why I write what I write and why I cannot afford to give in to negativity – either yours or mine.

My time is near

I know you'll argue that I'm still young. By the 30th December this year, I will reach my 18th birthday – that is of course, IF Allah wills. If my death comes before that, what would I have as my 'source' of rewards (pahala) if I have not done anything that people can benefit from after my death? I am hopeful that what I write here will benefit myself, and my readers – boy or girl, young or old. I want my blog to be useful, not a place to say that I'm a fool.:)

I am a normal, sensitive girl

I don't like to show it, but believe me – even the slightest negativity can upset me, especially if its from someone I really care about and expect support from. Please, I'm begging you, encourage me through positivity, not through your negative attitudes. I'm a human being, a student and still learning. So, I'm bound to make mistakes. Would you then, not forgive me for these mistakes of mine?

Amar Ma'aruf, Nahi Munkar

If I wanted to live in a healthier, happier and safer society, why would I not stick to this concept? Amar Ma'aruf, Nahi Munkar - Call people to things that are good, prevent them from doing things that are bad or can lead to bad consequences. Please understand, as I try to fix my own self, I also want to fix this World into being better. You might say I'm ambitious – well, I'll say – YOU'RE RIGHT! And it's because I'm ambitious that I work hard. Otherwise, I might just laze around and act as if the whole world revolves around me.

To conclude, all I'm asking for is your encouragement, kindness and forgiveness. I have not been able to say it to you straight because you seem to stick with the thought that I am 'too ambitious' when it comes to Islam. So, I'm sorry and I hope you'll forgive me because, as I've said before, I cannot afford to give in to negativity – either yours, or mine. Pray for me. :)

Thank you.
Assalamualaikum~ ^^

Saturday, 10 July 2010

Jodoh aku, jodoh engkau dan jodoh dia!

Jodoh aku
Semenjak aku kecik2, mude2, comel2 dulu, memang ramai manusia yang rajin mencarikan jodoh untuk aku. Kalau tak mencarikan, diorang promotekan. Kalau tak promotekan, diorang akan banyak bertanya "Dah ada pakwe, bihah?". Kalau bukan soalan yang dituju, diorang akan cakap "eh, jangan tipu la. Bihah ni mesti dah ade boyfriend ni!". Hakikatnye, bukan aku seorang je yang kena kes macam ni. Boleh dikatekan, semua jenis perempuan dah pernah kene kes camni dah, dak?

Ni, biar aku jelaskan status aku dulu dan status aku sekarang, ye? Dulu, aku cakap 'no to couple', hubungan boyfriend-girlfriend ni sebab nak focus on studies. Sekarang, dah sampai England, aku cakap 'no to couple' atas banyak sebab - sebab utama sudah semestinya yang hubungan macam ni haram di sisi Islam, (bile sampai sini baru belajar lebih mendalam ttg hukum hubungan2 macam ni). Ade sesetengah cakap boleh kapel Islamik. Boleh ke? Sile bace komik pendek ini untuk membaca how the term 'couple Islamic' should not exist. Pd aku, kalau nak sangat bercouple, pergi berkahwin - kurang dosa, tambah pahala, dah hidup bahagia. InsyaAllah~    

Jodoh di tangan Allah SWT, Pencipta sekalian alam. Bukan di tangan kakak2, kawan2 ataupun makcik2 di sekeliling kita. Kalau satu hubungan tu tidak diredhaiNya, takkan sampai ke mane2 pun hubungan tu. Aku tahu bab jodoh ni, sstgh org ade berkate yg kite kene berusaha untuk mencari jodoh kite tu. Tapi, itu tak bermakne kite boleh mencari jodoh ikut suke hati kite sampai pahala dan dosa, dipandang sebelah mate. Tambah2 lagi, aku ni masih mude, umur tak mencecah 18 tahun lagi, bisnes pun tak buat lagi. Biarlah jodoh aku yang mencari aku, bukan aku yang mencari die. hehe ^^

Jodoh engkau dan jodoh dia
Bahagian ni memang amat2 digalakkan untuk dibace oleh para pra-remaja dan remaja yang sedang hangat bercinta dan ber'couple' sini sana. Yang saya perhatikan, kebanyakan remaja terjebak dalam dunia 'couple' ni atas dua sebab utama:

1. Nak rase diri disayangi

Semua orang nak menyayangi dan diri disayangi. Tapi, itu tak boleh dijadikan alasan untuk melakukan perkara yang haram. Kasih sayang mak dan ayah tak cukup lagi? Tak cukup? Kasih sayang Allah SWT kepada kita? Tak cukup lagi? Segala nikmat yang Dia dah kurniakan kepada kita - tak cukup lagi? Kalau nak mencari jodoh boleh. Tapi, janganlah hanya kerana perasaan, kita biarkan diri di ambang dosa. Kalau 'cinta' dibuktikan dengan care ber'couple', ape jenis bukti tu?

2. Nak mengikut kawan.

Manusia memang senang dipengaruhi oleh kawan-kawan. Sebab itu kita kene pandai memilih kawan. Kalau tersalah pilih, tersalah haluan la kot hidup kite ni. Nauzubillah. Kalau ade kawan cakap boleh ber'couple', kalau kawan cakap 'couple' tak haram. Sile minta dalil2 berpandukan Al-Quran dan hadis2 Nabi SAW utk membuktikan bahawa hubungan boyfriend-girlfriend ni 'halal' di dalam Islam. Janganlah kita senang terpengaruh dengan perkara yang akan menyebabkan diri dimurkai Allah SWT.

Assalamualaikum~ ^^


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