The media and its effects

Music, movies and all the things that can make a simple nobody to a somebody. But, are these nobodies really making themselves a somebody, or are they just showing themselves as some desperate human beings who are begging for attention that they'd do anything to get it?

Look at the well-known artists nowadays. Do they sell their music through their songs and voice? Or are they selling their music through the video clips? Most songs today, I just keep on wondering. Do they have any REAL meaning? Now, I am NOT saying all songs of today's world is crap or meaningless. It's just that, from my view, most songs today are sex orientated and the video clips are just focused on young women stripping their clothes off and act like some sort of a sex slave. It could be because I'm in the western side of the world. But the fact of the matter remains, we are getting more and more bad influence from these kinds of people! If you want to sell your songs, you don't need to include pornography or anything of that sort. Just sing and show your audience the real you. Not some garbage done only to attract perverts.

Do you have a kid? Tell me now, would you like your kids to be exposed to such indecency from a young age? Be realistic, if kids are exposed to the 'adult' world before the appropriate age, this world is going to be a hell lot worse than it is now. Teenage pregnancy will be on the rise. Child abuse. Domestic violence and we will most likely see a rise in peadhophiles. The reason I say paedohiles? When society are getting more 'open' on sex, more people especially youngsters are going to want to 'try' sex until at last, they just can't find a limit to it. When this happens, it would mean that sex are easy to get. And, when these certain people get tired of 'adult' sex. They will most likely hunt down on other types of people, maybe people of their own gender and what would be worse, if these certain people hunt down on young children to fill their curiousity and burning lusts. Would you want to send your children to school feeling scared that they might get raped or something like that? Surely not!

Don't get me wrong, I am not saying all songs are bad. Some are quite inspiring and meaningful. It's just that some artists use sexy women to attract more audience to their albums. A pretty lame way of getting people if you ask me. But, that's the truth I suppose. To them, it's all about the free and 'fun' life, without thinking of the influence they bring into today's world and how it will affect the future.

How ungrateful we are

It's approx 1:19 in the morning while I'm writing this. I was about to go to sleep, until I came across this blog. For those who doesn't understand the language used in the blog. Let me just summarise the entry. It involved a newspaper article talking about how a 30 year old son left his 57 year old dad opposite a school. This unknown son left his dad with a bag of clothes. Truthfully, when I read the article, tears just came down running down my cheek. I couldn't help it - it was just uncontrollable. How can there be anyone who is as heartless as to leave their own father by the side of the road? Fortunately for the 57 year old man, he met an old friend, who offered to spend some nights at his place. May Allah bless you, old man's friend. And for the son, I won't wish you bad stuff, but I hope you realise your mistake.

How could you ever leave your dad over your wife? For God's sake, your wife is just a wife! No matter how you see it, your dad has been the one raising you up since you were born, so, who are you to treat them as if they're a burden to you, when you've 'burdened' your parents since 9 months before you were given birth to? Ungrateful child, no matter how rich you are now. It might not have been possible if it weren't for your dad's effort to raise you well and healthy, with the education you needed - sending you to school and sacrificing his time and energy just for you. And if you are a Muslim, which I'm pretty sure you are. You better repent mate, cause in the end, you should prioritise your parent first than your wife.

Me and my lovely dad. I love you ayah ^-^

Before this, it was child abuse and rapes and all that sort. And now, throwing away your own dad? Man, that is just SAD. Is it me or has society gone mad?

Valentine's day = No panties day?

Woah! Malaysia, Malaysia, Malaysia. It's been just under three years I've been in England and now all I hear is this "No-panties campaign" that's been going on in Malaysia? From what I've read from fellow bloggers, this 'No Panties' campaign is to encourage girls not to wear panties on valentine's day, to show their love to their partners. How STUPID can you get?! How on earth does not wearing panties prove anything? Oh right, maybe I'm forgetting one simple fact - it proofs you're a FOOL if you follow this stupid campaign! And I'm sure glad I ain't one of them.

Why?
I don't know, maybe the fact that it will make you look like a complete slut! And don't worry darling, not just to the public - but to your 'beloved' boyfriend as well! I'm sorry to sound rude but it's the truth. Oh, how the truth hurts. Think about it, if he loves you, does he really need you to 'prove' your love to him? Why do you need to prove your love to him when he hasn't even proven his love to you? And don't give me that lame "Oh, he's proven his love by giving me flowers and taking me out on a romantic dinner". That ain't a proof, that's just his way of making you fall for his cunning tricks. One simple proof of a man's love is marriage. If he truly loves you, as in, he loves you from the bottom of his heart, he doesn't have to take you out. All he would want to do is ask you to be his wife and share his entire life with you.
After you guys get married, maaaan..you can do whatever you want with him. (As long as you don't cross the line that is)

May I remind my fellow Muslim sisters that Valentine's day is haram? Why you ask? Basically because it is a form of Syirk (Syirik). Don't believe me? Click here. Can we think about this campaign for a moment and think who and what started it? Hurmm..Let's see, people has been trying to attack Islam since the years of the Prophet (PBUH). Don't you think this could be one of our enemy's strategy to bring down Islam. They'll start with these kinds of stuff, make us all obsessed with 'love' that we forget the main purpose of life. And when they see us off guard, BANG! That's when they'll make their move. So, I beg you my fellow brothers and sisters. Do not fall prey into their tricks and let's start learning and improving ourselves for the future - both the hereafter and our future on the face of the Earth.

Everyone has their ego and just wants to follow what their 'heart' tells them to do, without realising that it's actually the shaytan's whispers. Well, if you have read this entry, and you still want to follow these stupid Valentine traditions and the stupid 'No Panties' campaign. I pray you well cause I don't know how a person can be so bravely stupid enough as to get themselves closer to hell.

Not no to panties, say no to the campaign and Valentine's day!

Salam

The reason I cry at 2 in the morning

Society now has changed - dramatically! People are going mad - every single day, there will always be cases of rapes, pedhophiles and worse yet, the disposals of little babies. By disposal, I don't mean abortion which unfotunately happens by accident. But, the action in which after the baby is born, he/she gets thrown away. I know, reading is bad enough - try witnessing it!

I was browsing through GengBlogger.com when I found this post: Adakah ibu dan bapa bayi ini manusia? Truly I was disturbed. The thoughts that went through my mind was constantly "How did this baby die?", "I hope her death was not painful" and only Allah knows how hard it is for me to just sit in front of a computer and not being able to help the helpless victims of today's mad society.

Don't get me wrong, I am not saying the whole society is bad, but I believe we need to do something to end this mad 'trend'. One step could be to tighten the media in the country. Pornography needs to be totally out of our country!

Another one could be that the parents need to be more strict! If your son or daughter is having an illegitimate child with someone, don't let them throw the baby away! It's not the baby's fault for crying out loud! The shame in this world is not as bad as the torture in the hereafter. So, do not allow your son/ daughter to throw away a baby only because you're afraid people may talk about you and your family. In the end, they're not the one deciding whether you go to heaven or hell. That's all up to your deeds, so don't add more sins! Fine, your children's crossed the line - but don't make it worse by getting rid of the innocent baby. The baby's done nothing wrong! Just make sure your children's repent and will not do it ever again. Better yet, get them married and make them take the responsibility full on as a parent to the child.

Another way in which parents should be strict, don't give your child everyting he/she wants! They need to learn how to earn it as well! If you keep on giving them what they want, how are they supposed to learn the hard truth of life? Any parent would want the best for their children, but that doesn't mean they need to give in every single time the child cries. Otherwise, they'll just walk over you and treat you like a slave - so stop being so soft! In this world, you can't be too soft and you can't be too harsh! There is always a limit to something - make sure you know these limits and teach your children while you're at it!

Be jealous! That's what my mum said her mum told her. When you're raising a child, you need to be jealous. Not jealous as in envy, but 'be jealous' as in showing concern about what he/ she does because your child is still learning between what's right and what's wrong! They need your help to know the difference, not their friends!

Let's stop this madness.

How would you feel if you were thrown away?

Coupling - worth the drama?

Hey hey, how's it going? Now, the title - straightforward enough for you? Well, I'm pretty sure the title speaks for itself, and before you tell me "Oh, Nabihah, stop being so shallow. We're in the 21st century, be open minded!" Errkk..News flash! I am being open minded - which is why I say NO to coupling!

What? You think being in the 21st century makes us better than the people that comes before us? Don't make me laugh! People nowadays are like animals hunting for prey - this goes primarily to the people who would do anything just to fulfill their burning lusts.

Why do I say NO to coupling?


We, especially youngsters like to try and experience new things - who wouldn't? With all the peer pressure, always wanting to be like that person whom everyone 'loves', coupling seems to be the only way for us to say "Yeah, I'm cool!" One question - are you sure? Or are you just being a fool? What is the point of 'loving' someone when you can't even love yourself? I have a friend who just cannot 'live' without having a boyfriend, pretty sad but hey, that's reality. Why I asked her, and she said she doesn't want to be lonely. Earth to you - you are not going to be alone! No matter who you are, of course you will have some friends in your life, and not forgetting your family! Sure, it's nice to feel 'loved' by a significant other. But, how can we be sure of this 'love' they offer? For all you know, they may say they'll love you for the rest of their lives when the truth is, they just want to get in bed with you and just leave you sober. Now, where's the fun in that? Imagine - you give yourself in for a guy who you think is 'the one' and find yourself pregnant three months later, and about to have a baby with no father six months after? How is that going to make you look cool? If you ask me - that'll just make you look like a slut!



When I was in Malaysia, my friend argued, if you never coupled with anyone, how can you have the experience? My question : Why would you need experience for something that will only make it worse for you? Yes, we learn from our mistakes, but unfortunately, we cannot erase our mistakes. Look at the world now, when girls are ashamed of having an illegitimate child, what do they do to the baby? They just throw away the baby as if the baby has no life or value. Now, what is the point of coupling if it's only going to lead to immorality and inhumanity? If there were no coupling, and marriage was a must before you can take your 'partner' out, there would not be a single problem of child mistreatment.

Another problem with coupling -because it has been so easy for people to 'try' others, more and more people are becoming homosexuals. Why? Why not? They've already 'tasted' the opposite gender, why not 'try' stuff on people of the same gender. And what's even worse, now that sex is so easy to get, some people do have the insane mind as to sodomise little kids. If you don't believe me, read the newspapers - there are more and more paedophiles in this world.

My bet is you'll probs say "Maaan, chill out..We only live life once..Let's just enjoy it while it last" Wrong! Don't ever forget this key important fact - there is another life after this life, which will be determined by how we live our life here on the face of the Earth. Yes we can enjoy life, but everything has a limit. If there were no rules in this life, people would just take things for granted, and this World would have been destroyed like thousands of years ago.

Well, to end this entry. I know I'm just a normal, ordinary girl like all the girls in this world - filled with imperfections and you might say I have no right to tell you what to do, and you're probably right to. This post was only an advise for the people who's desperate for reminders. If you still choose to go along with coupling, please don't let it end like this :

*Please pardon the manner in which I have written this post.

Salam ^-^

*Addition: Harapan seekor seperma a post i find really interesting and funny, and a lesson for us all.